Girlfriend Still Talks With Ex-Boyfriends
If you’ve got a girlfriend who still talks with her ex-boyfriends you probably want to know why, and what you can do about it. First thing to consider is how did you find out about her talking with the ex boyfriend. Was she open and honest about the communication, or was it something you found out by accident?
If it was something she was trying to hide then you may have a serious problem. For one thing, how often is the contact taking place and why? Since it’s her ex, you need to try to understand the need to connect with the ex in the first place.
Obviously if they didn’t have kids together there shouldn’t be a whole lot of contact. Otherwise it would become a constant source of frustration that you should not be willing to deal with and you should let her know.
However, if your girlfriend is upfront and honest about it and willing to discuss it with you, then you should be “somewhat,” understanding. No matter what, it is a difficult situation to be in and one which you should communicate your feelings about in order to make sure it doesn’t escalate into resentment and bad feelings.
Partners in any long-term relationship need to have respect for one another which is the foundation of a long lasting relationship. Talking to an ex, whether friendly chit-chat or not is usually not a sign of respect to your current love. She needs to understand that if she loves and respects you, then you need to know what is going on with the two of them and ask for it to stop.
You need to let her know that while it’s good to remember and learn from the past it should not influence your current relationship. Tell your girlfriend how you really feel about the contact with the ex boyfriend and always trsut your gut feelings. If it doesn’t feel right, it’s probably not.
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Communication is the way to go in a situation where the girlfriend is talking with ex-boyfriends. I know from experience whenever an ex boyfriend started calling me again they only wanted one thing. Everyone does things for a reason. If your girlfriend is talking you need to know what it is!
I just found out that my girlfriend is talking to her ex boyfriend from one of her friends. What really drives me crazy is she has brought him up in conversation before, talking about him in a good way. She would drop his name from time to time saying things like, my ex boyfriend used to do this, or he knew so and so.
At the time I thought she was just trying to add to our conversation, now I’m wondering what I should do. I guess I’ll have to confront her with this. I just don’t want to sound too jealous.
And, If there is something going on I want to catch her rather than warn her and have it keep going on behind my back.
I agree 100%! My ex as of Novemember 16,th 2010 play the same f***ing game and finds reason everytime why this tpe of behavior is okay! Your best bet is to leave and find someone that will give you 100% as well as respect you.
The only reason WHY they do this is simple, there is unfinished business and they prefer to keep in close contact incase “YOU” are a failure somewhere down the road and they feel the need to speak to someone that they claim “knows them!”
In all honesty, FK EM! Seek and you will find better everytime, you just need to apply yourself and you will do just fine. Let go, DO NOT CALL, TEXT, EMAIL or go to their home, just be done. It works and you will find happiness elsewhere.
Good luck to you,
Dane
I agree 100%! My ex as of Novemember 16,th 2010 play the same f***ing game and finds reason everytime why this type of behavior is okay! Your best bet is to leave and find someone that will give you 100% as well as respect you.
The only reason WHY they do this is simple, there is unfinished business and they prefer to keep in close contact incase “YOU” are a failure somewhere down the road and they feel the need to speak to someone that they claim “knows them!”
In all honesty, FK EM! Seek and you will find better everytime, you just need to apply yourself and you will do just fine. Let go, DO NOT CALL, TEXT, EMAIL or go to their home, just be done. It works and you will find happiness elsewhere.
Good luck to you,
Dane
i caught my girl in lie and still havent been able to get over it i want to leave but we have a kid 2gether and its so hard i love her but disloyal and distrust makes me disliked any person at allthe worst part is she tried to cover it up i just feel like im pressed all of a sudden