Girlfriend Still Talks With Ex-Boyfriends

If you’ve got a girlfriend who still talks with her ex-boyfriends you probably want to know why, and what you can do about it. First thing to consider is how did you find out about her talking with the ex boyfriend. Was she open and honest about the communication, or was it something you found out by accident?

If it was something she was trying to hide then you may have a serious problem. For one thing, how often is the contact taking place and why? Since it’s her ex, you need to try to understand the need to connect with the ex in the first place.

Obviously if they didn’t have kids together there shouldn’t be a whole lot of contact. Otherwise it would become a constant source of frustration that you should not be willing to deal with and you should let her know. Read the rest of this entry