I’m a 19 year old guy who until recently was doing pretty well just being single and going to college. Two months ago I met a girl and all of that changed. I had to see her all of the time and after a week or so of dating I asked her to be my girlfriend. She said yes and we began seeing each other practically every day.

Fast forward to one month later and she became my whole life!

My new girlfriend was all I could think about, I called and texted her constantly. When we weren’t together she was all I could think about. Then one day it happened…

My car had broken down, so I was driving a convertible rental car and wanted to show it off. I got the bright idea I’d drive to her house to surprise her and take her to the beach because I knew she was home. I arrived at the exact same time that she was coming out of her house with some other dude!

Not only that, she had a towel and was drying her hair like she just got out of the shower. I drove up to them and said, “what’s up?” The look on her face told me everything I needed to know. She said surprised, “Nothing, we’re just hanging out?”

Confused I said, “I though you’d want to go to the beach today.” Her and the dude just looked at me weird and I said, “ok later,” and left.

As I drove to the beach by myself I was kicking myself, why didn’t I ask what was going on, should I have confronted the guy, should I have confronted my girlfriend. Right now all I can think about is how much I miss her and how much I hate my girlfriend for doing this to me.

It’s been three days since it’s happened and I’m totally confused… I feel lost and just want her back, but I know in my heart I’ve been played!

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